Some absolute fucking moron that I USED to call a friend posted a status in Facebook hailing the person who hacked and publicised JLaw’s nude photos as a “hero” and when I explained to him why that was wrong, he chucked the biggest hissy fit. Then some more of his friends commented about how it’s her fault and proceeded to talk about all the times they’ve hacked others? They all tried to gang up against me and convince me that it was JLaw’s own fault for taking the photos and every time I came back with a rebuttal they got worse and worse. The original status poster eventually told me to “get off my high horse and stop attacking him for putting his two cents in and saying the same thing everyone else is saying”.
A) I’m not attacking you. I’m disagreeing with you and debating your points, telling you why what you’re saying is not only incorrect but damaging to say publicly
B) I can’t wait for everyone else to jump off a bridge so you can do it too!
C) I’m not on a high horse. I’m a decent human being (but I get it, you don’t know anything about that)

Yesterday I woke up in someone else’s bed in someone else’s house for the first time in over a year. My anxiety is too intense for me to even leave the house most days, and I managed to stay overnight somewhere else! It might not seem like a huge deal to others but it was a huge deal for me. And the weirdest part of it was I didn’t feel even the slightest bit anxious about it! Probably because I was at Samara’s and Samara and I have this special kind of friendship. I know that sounds super dumb but we really do. It’s not really outright obvious that we’re friends, let alone how close we actually are. Our friendship has always been super chill. I can’t even tell you how many times we’ve hung out and haven’t even needed to talk. We’re super comfortable sitting in silence together. When I think about it, we talk almost every day. And I probably tell her more than I tell most people. Honestly, she’s one of my best friends. And it’s weird because we’ve never really been the type to tell each other how much we love each other because we don’t need to? We just know we care? I don’t even really know how to explain it. It’s like… more than friendship without being show off-y? Kind of like… family. That’s the only real way to explain it. It just is what it is and I know I could talk to her about anything and she’d never judge me and she’s always on my side and in reality we are really close but our friendship is the more quiet, non showy, no drama type. She’s really great and I had the best time with her. I always do. Whether we’re super drunk and making really bad punch, super stoned and talking about how much better toast is than bread, or completely sober and talking about feminism and genetic selection and Teen Wolf. Sometimes, she’ll even come over when I’m really sick and just sit with me and watch movies while I sleep. She’s one of my favourite people and I’m so fucking appreciative to have her in my life.